“How to stop break up when my ex does not seem to be responding? How to stop break up when everyone around me doesn’t seems to be supportive?”
Perhaps, you are being trapped in the above situation. Well, you are definitely not alone. It is usually quite common that when a person just gone through a break up, his/her friends will encourage him/her to just let go and move on to a better relationship.
Well, you should not blame your friends or even resent them. They do so with good intention. Yet, sometimes it is difficult for an outsider to understand how you feel after a break up. It is easy for them to say just move on when they themselves have never experience a break up before.
If you are still serious about your ex, there is definitely something you can still do, even if you are the only one trying or seem to be the only one trying. The reason why I say “seem to be the only one trying” is because sometimes you may be surprised that your ex is actually trying to get back to you too.
Whatever the situation is, you must remember that certain things should not be rush. It doesn’t mean you don’t take any action but you just have to be careful not to overdo it. Remember, more haste less speed.
For example, if you are trying to contact your ex, you don’t want to call him/her several times per day. You don’t want to appear too eager as that may undermine your effort. You may be very eager to get him/her back but you do not want to show this eagerness in front of your boyfriend or girlfriend.
By taking things more gradually and consistently, you will stand a much better chance to win your ex back.
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